dear first love

written on Sep 25, 2021

i wasn’t sure of it at first 

in fact i denied of its existence 

i didn’t want to risk it

to gamble with what we have 

for something that might not be 

“a happily ever after”


even though ‘we’ didn’t happen

at least life felt better

navigating as best friends

not strangers 


we had our chances at love 

with other people 

sadly, they weren’t ‘the ones’ either


no matter how it turned out 

we always come back to each other

because 

we’re the best of friends

and nothing more


fate came into play 

once again after twenty years 

our paths intertwined

but us, in our forties 

now with our own scars and baggage to carry 


despite the time spent apart 

it felt like nothing has changed 

just like back then 


you still know me at the back of your hand 

paying attention to every detail

not just of my likes and dislikes 

but others around you as well 


there’s just something about you 

that makes people open up

and i think i now understand why

it’s in the way you treat them

your attentive eyes 

the way you’re keen to listen their stories 

that no one bothered to stop and listen 


it’s in the little things that you do 

for being the one who had to patiently wait

for being the one who puts others first 

to knowing how important coffee is to me in my daily life 

especially whenever i had long drives


even as friends

i could easily tell why you’re so likeable 

that’s your charm 

especially those jokes of yours


through these simple yet heart-fluttering moments 

and i find myself once again 

falling for you 


the turning point was

when you saw me on my worst nights

yet offered to drive

because you knew i wasn’t in a state that i could

i’m forever thankful for you

for not letting me be


then and now

you’re still the only one who would watch the rain with me 

the only one i’m comfortable with spending time in silence 


my heart is full 

knowing that you’re there

moments like these 

i often wished that they could last forever 


in the end 

isn’t that what we search and long for in life?


the human connection 

and a partner


someone who will hold your hand

to keep you grounded 

as you both pull through the hardest storms and pouring rain 

to enjoy the rainbow and smell the flowers 

after the hardship 


that’s when i knew it had to be you

after all this time 


you’re the reason it didn’t work out with the rest

the reason why i couldn’t let go nor forget 


i may have missed this chance back then

but this time, i’m going to make it mine

to give it a go, even if it’s one sided 


well, twenty years later

i’m happy to be holding your hand 

i’m glad fate turned around 

brought us back together 

even if it feels weird to do romantic things 

as friends turned lovers

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